Am I Wrong

Am I Wrong?

Am I wrong for wanting to resist temptation? Am I wrong for wanting to get away from you? Am I wrong for wanting to get you out of my life? You hurt me. YOU destroyed me. You took the best of me. You wadded me up like paper and threw me in the trash. You took a knife and stabbed me in the heart. You used me.

These are all the questions I’m asking myself. I’m searching for answers. You may be wondering what this post is about its simply about me and my foolish mistakes and getting involved with a guy I shouldn’t have and now I’m stuck with it I’ve talked about him in previous posts. I’m writing today so what happened to me doesn’t happen to you

Every time am I wrong by nico and vinz comes on I freeze. I think about everything he did and how he wrecked my life it’s like he took a bowling ball and knocked me down pin by in (my brother’s friend) here is what happened:

He always told me I was pretty. He just did that so he could touch my butt. I let temptation get to me. He showed me a girls profile picture on twitter of them pulling up their dresses in thongs so I would think its okay if I showed him mine.

 

 

When You’re Going through Hell Don’t Show It

When You’re Going through Hell Don’t Show It

Basically what I’m writing about today is a really important subject. It means whenever something bad happens in your life pick your feet up and keep going. Don’t go moping around trying to make people feel sorry for you because it puts you down. Learn from it get something out of it.

Have you ever had one of those days where your just like “Why am I on earth.” I’ve had many of those trust me. Maybe temptation got to you that day. Maybe you’re struggling to pay house bills. I have a few tips for you on what do and how to handle these situations:

1.   I know some of my readers don’t believe in god. I do and I really recommend praying. God has always helped me through tough situations. Just ask god for help and I promise he will hear your prayer.

2.  Another thing I recommend is taking a hot bath then put on a hot robe make brownies and rent your favorite movie. Trust me making yourself feel good means everything.

3.  The last thing I recommend is to call over friends for support. Another helping hand or a shoulder to cry on relieves stress.

I just want you all to know things do get better. Look at Phil Robertson from duck dynasty. I’ll have a link to their life changing stories below.

http://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/duck-dynastys-phil-robertson-miss-kay-open-up-about-pre-fame-infidelity-alcohol-issues-in-new-film-20132011

 

 

How to handle people being mean

How to handle people being mean

Honestly I take this subject very seriously. I am a very godly person and I’ve always told myself they just have a little devil inside them. Since I’m a Christian I believe that you should love everyone and forgive but it’s not that easy.

My tip #1 is to say “look I’m not going to put up with this and I’m going to be the mature one and ask you to end this now please.” And if they say you’re pathetic, hey they are the pathetic and immature ones who obviously have something going on in their lives.

My tip #2 is to walk away. If they say you’re weak or scared you have to remember that they are the weak and insecure ones. They feel so week and insecure about themselves inside they feel they have to take it out on other people. If anything I would be nice to them and feel sorry for them because they’ve probably been through rough times or had a rough life.

My tip #3 is to tell someone. If they threaten you that’s even more of a reason to tell. Maybe they can get help and get better. You’ll probably be helping other kids that are being victimized by that person too. Especially if you’re a bystander. A bystander is someone who witness bullying or people being just downright mean.

I really hope these things help you in future situations or stuff that’s going on now. Remember if you want to talk you can always contact me. All you have to do is comment below and ask and in the next post I can give out my email J!

 

 

How Much Should You Really Show Off When It Comes to Clothes

How Much Should You Really Show Off When It Comes to Clothes

Do you ever look in the mirror and think “Man, should I really be wearing this?” or “I’m probably going to get judged for what I’ve put on.” Well chances are you’re probably showing off a little too much. Honestly I know from experience and I have a little story to tell that changed everything.

My Story

Not too long ago I made some poor decisions as far as what I did and the clothes I wore. My brother is a few years older than me and he has friends over all the time. I’d be left home alone with him and his friends and stuff like that. A lot of the time my age is mistaken for 3 or 4 years older because I’m tall and look older so to them were equal.

One of my brothers friends were staying the night one night and my brother was asleep. I had yoga pants on which clearly showed my butt. I got up to do something and went to set back down on the couch and accidently sat on his feet (which he had there on purpose) and then I said oops sorry and got up for him to move them and he didn’t. He told me to set back down. He was older than me and I guess I thought that was cool so I sat back down to where his feet could feel my butt through those yoga pants.

Honestly, that was only the beginning. He ended up doing worse stuff to me and I found myself in a bad place. I was hanging out with bad people, dating random guys, and I was terrified to go anywhere alone. About a month later I met new friends and found god and I’m doing really good now. I’m on the straight A honor roll and I’m pretty popular at my school. I’m a member or our schools cheer and golf team and guess what… I still have nice supportive friends and no yoga pants or inappropriate shorts are in my wardrobe!

 

Tips

1.        I don’t really believe the fingertip rule is right because if you have long arms like me you’ll be wearing shorts to your knees. Honestly I just think they should cover your butt.

2.  If you’re going to wear yoga pants be sure to wear a shirt that covers your but because you don’t want to attract unwanted attention unless you’re running or at the gym.

3.    I don’t think it’s bad to show just a little bit of your belly but if your shirt only goes to your chest you probably want to find something longer.

 

If you dress this way more than likely you’ll find a boy who respects you and treats you right. Not one that uses you up and throws you away. Your friends may be wearing this stuff but they are probably not going to be treated with respect.

 

 

 

 

 

Who You Hang Around Is Who Youll Become

Have you ever been in a sticky situation? One so sticky you can hardly move? Believe me I know, I’ve been there. My life’s been crazy up and down left and right and just recently I’ve finally really got a grip. I’ve got a grip on not only my life, but a golf club and a fresh new bible. I realized it was the people around me I was hanging out with.

 

Think you got a good group of friends? A nice clique? Ask yourself these questions:

1.         Are any of these people involved in drugs?

2.   Do they make good grades?

3.     How is their home situation?

4.    Do they have a good personality, nice and respectful?

 

Believe me, If their into drugs, their grades are in the toilet, they’re not being treated right at home or they don’t have one, or they are mean, cruel, and a liar then honestly you probably don’t want to be around those kinds of people. Most likely if you hang around those kinds of people then you’ll become one yourself.

 

Honestly, you may think that stuff is cool. Trust me; you’re not going to think its cool when you’re fighting to get a job at McDonalds to pay for food and the drugs you “need” to buy. I haven’t ever been in that situation but I’ve seen people in that place.

 

If you’re in a place like that right now, you’re not alone. Just leave a comment below if you’d like to have a more private conversation about what you’re going through, and I’ll leave my email  below on the next post.

 

I also just wanted to thank you all for your comments and helping BR reach 8,000 views. I will also be sure to check out all your blogs!

 

Xoxo,

                   Blog Rebels

 

 

 

Confused

                  Okay, so im literally so confused. Im angry, sad, ad just a tiny little bit happy. I mean I like him but I don't. This whole thing is just really confusing. Lets go back a few days....
                   Me and a guy ( lets just call him A ) had been talking a lot, only as friends because he liked another girl. He came over every day this week and most of last week. He started dating that girl today. She is  really big brat but im definitely not telling him that. Anyway, every since they started dating today we've been talking less. Im also confused because I think I like him but I really really don't want to like him. He's been reading my messages I can tell because it shows me on my phone and I don't know what to do.

Im really super confused. Comment what you think I should do or if you have had a past experience like this one. Want to share your story? Email me: mysecret4646@gmail.com

The Bully Project

" Can you tell me now your the lucky one?"
This will be the slogan for an event id like to start to help prevent bullying. I will be sending a prize to the person with the best name and the best design for this event.

Im sure most of you have realized how im strongly against bullying. I have been thinking and I want to do an event where there is a week dedicated to preventing bullying and how to stop it and speak up. This will include stories of when I was bullied and other people were bullied ( no names mentioned ) and if you all support this idea please comment below or email me. If you want to submit your story for this event please email me @ mysecret4646@gmail.com

B- Being Mean
U- Un kind
L- Lame
L- Limitless
Y- Young or old
I- Intimidating
N- Not tolerated
G- Giving life's                

Help put it to an end.

Parent Problems

       
I’m kindve crying right now and I really don't know what to do. I think I've learned a valuable lesson that I think everyone else needs to know so they don't make the same mistake I have. Here is my story:

       So it all started off earlier when I decided to go shopping with my money for earrings. Everything was good I picked out my earrings and paid. My mom started to get mad because the lady behind the cash register ripped her off. Then she was already mad and things escalated and got worse. I was in trouble for wearing mascara. She was yelling at me and asking where I got it. I had told her I used hers because I hesitated but I actually bought it at Kroger with my own money and a self scanner. She hasn't figured that out yet but I have everything taken away at the moment and I feel this punishment is severe. I’m using my brother’s laptop to type this because I don't know what else to do with my feelings. I have learned a lesson here and id like to share it: Girls, don't dress in booty shorts or tight skirts and belly shirts. All you’re doing is losing respect for yourself. If a guy likes you it should be because he thinks your beautiful without caking makeup on your face or wearing shorts with your but hanging out. Another thing I’d like to share is obey your parents. Even though my parents are punishing me right now im not mad because they know what's best for me. I know I deserve this. This is to all these young girls who want to dress like I did. Parents, who are reading this, show your kids this. It’s a lesson every girl will figure out sooner or later in life but after reading this the situation could be a little less painful.

       Typing this has taught me a lesson. I hope it teaches you one too.

      

Ive Been Used

Words can’t even explain how I’m feeling right now. Sad, depressed, maybe both. I have finally realized I've been used as this has never happened before. I bet many of you have been used. Its a terrible thing and I hope many of you can relate to this story with past experiences:

 

          We started off talking. He had a girlfriend but we were only friends. I was so happy and talking to him made me have no worries. He was just amazing. I was so happy. Then, a few days later we started to get serious saying things like “Things are better when you’re around “and” You’re the best I love you “our relationship was getting deeper. The next day he broke up with his girlfriend and said he liked me. Then the girl he broke up with started to send me hateful messages. He kept calling me babe and saying he loved me. Today I saw him with her and he was eating lunch with her and they were both flirting. I was devastated by 4th period. Later today he asked why my instagram bio said taken when he made it clear we were dating. Now he's dating the other girl and she hates me and I’m alone. Since I have a ton of other friends to support me I’m a little bit better now but sharing this with you all has made me feel like I don't need him and I’m fine.

 

           I appreciate all of you commenting and it really motivates us to keep sharing these stories with you! You can always reach both of us at Mysecret4646@gmail.com if you have any drama or just anything you need to share or talk about.

 

                                                     XOXO,

                                                           Blog Rebels <3

 

No matter what

Have you ever been confused about your life? Have you ever wondered your purpose? Well, everyone has a place and a purpose. Even through the hardest times. You may think you’re worthless but you’re not. Look in the mirror your beautiful. Don't you dare put yourself down! Love yourself there is someone out there who would die inside if you died. 

Sometimes, songs or movies can encourage you to feel better. Some encouraging songs that might make you feel better are:

·      I won’t give up

·      Till I collapse – Eminem

·      Headlights – Eminem

And those are only just a few.

2 of my favorite movies are the most encouraging.

1.        Cyber bully- true story

2.  Bully – true story

 

Bully

Well, this post is somewhat inspired by what I’m experiencing right now. I’m trying to calm myself but I figured this would help. I just wanted to share this story with you to get it out of my head and hopefully teach a lesson.

Enjoy!

 

I want to start off by saying last year was a very hard year for me. Struggling with my grades, losing friends, dating different guys and honestly sometimes I felt like I had no way out. This story I want to share is actually about me and my partner in blogging being bullied by a mean girl at school. We had been bullied by her 2 years ago and if you look from the previous years, there will be several posts about her. We started this blog because we needed a place we could go and talk with no drama. This story is basically how we became blog rebels!

 

Last year, as I mentioned before there was a really mean girl in my grade and she had a huge impact on my life. My friend and I were bullied by her but it has actually made us both stronger as a blogging team. At lunch she would whisper to her friend about us, and my teacher always taking her side didn’t help. I will always remember how at lunch one day she called me elephant ears. This girl could very well be reading this right now. I told my teacher and she just took the other girls side and dint even listen to my story. I ran to the bathroom and cried. She did some ad things to my friend to. I can remember her calling us fat and ugly (which we clearly weren’t fat or ugly) luckily we didn’t let this get to us. My friend came over and we just typed since we created the blog a year before. It really helped us with our emotion problems and we went to school the next day not caring what she said. We were proud of whom we were and what all we had already accomplished. This blog has had a major impact on the both of our lives and we wouldn’t regret a single thing.

 

I hope you enjoyed this post.

Xoxo,

                Blog Rebels

 

 

MH370

If you haven't heard of what happened to the MH370 you need to read this. This plane took off and since then no one has heard from anyone in that plane and it never landed. There are many theories of what could have happened. One theory is that someone else took over the plane and either crashed it or took it somewhere else like an island or another country. Another theory is that it crashed into the ocean and everyone died. All we need to do is hope for the best and pray.

Many have said the pilots were guilty. Many said it could have drowned. Many just don’t know. MH370. You may not have known those people but they had families. I can’t even stress it enough that we should all be praying for then & their families.

Latest update: recent evidence shows that the plane could have been hijacked. This could possibly lead to terrorism and later war with that country. Evidence has also shown that the plane took a sharp turn from going to its destination to its opposite direction

Xoxo,

Blog Rebels

 

The Cute Guy In Algerbra ( Tips )

          

I’m finally back better than ever, and I realize its been way to long! I’m so excited to begin posting again and I hope you read & enjoy each of my post! Just to let you know, to start off I will be posting 2 times or more each week. The posts will be like before, about your life and what you experience. Enjoy!

 

So to start off, girls come on admit it you all have a crush on someone. Could it be the guy that sets in front of you in algebra or the guy you bumped into at Kroger? We never know. These tips right here are coming from the best... one and only... me! Enjoy!

 

1. Don't come on to hard. You don't want to creep the guy out.

2. Don't give the guy to much space because he may think you’re not interested a simple question about last night’s homework or the basketball game later would be perfect!

3. If you want to talk to him, it’s best to start by asking a question. Figure out his background. What does he like? Whether its sports or games any question on his interest would definitely attract immediate interest in what you’re saying

 

 

 

I hope you enjoyed this kickoff post to great 2014 year and I hope you enjoy J be expecting my next post sometime this week!

Xoxo,

Blog rebels